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My partner keeps walking out on me?
My partner walks out on me every other week. he will argue with me over the slightest thing and if i say something that is not a dig at him he will twist it and make a huge row over it. he constantly tells me how useless i am and tells me doesn’t love me anymore and sometimes smashes things. He always goes home to his mothers and leaves me in the country, and cos he’s taken the car, i cant go anywhere. I have a another car on the driveway but its not taxed or insured so i’m unable to go anywhere. Once when he left, i had no other option but to drive the car to work, i already have 8 points on my license and could have lost it if i had been stopped but i had no option, if i hadn’t gone to work then i’d have no money and wouldn’t have been able to pay the rent. I had to go into hospital last week but two days after i got out he walked out on me again after a scuffle when he made my lip bleed and smashed a few things. He came back and told me he loved me and i took him back again!!!! I dont know what to do anymore. I dont know if im strong enough on my own, i love him so much. He ;pst his father about 4 years ago and i really think he needs some counselling, cos the slightest thing sets him off and im always the one in the firing line. Even his mother cant cope with him but he always runs back to her house when he leaves me. Help!!!!!!
What he is doing is Emotional Abuse. By far at times more damaging than the physical kind simply because the scars are not visible but are carried within ones self.
I would recommend that you leave this relationship and put it very far behind you as quickly as possible.
I was in one of these relationships for 8 years where much the same thing happened to me. I spent years in counseling weekly to deal with the constant uproar and uncertainty in the on again off again relationship.
When i finally decided to walk away from that relationship i felt as if the world had been lifted from my shoulders. I felt like a totally different person and i could actually breath as if someone had lifted a ton of bricks off my chest.
Get out now before its too late.
michael k | Nov 17, 2009
yeah he does need counselling!!!!!! THe sooner the better. You should not be staying with him the way he is.Do you have anywhere else you can go? Move out. There is no excuse for him hitting you. He is having a rought trot yeah but he shoudn’t take it out on you and he needs to seek help. You need to move out and move on with your life.NO point staying there and kicking him out and getting police involved with restraining orders etc. Until he gets off his butt and gets help he won’t change. I had a guy who use to hit me and i just went back home to my mums as i was still living there at the time. I got sick of being accused of looking at other guys and him coming to his home from work as i use to stay there the nights sometimes and he would say i had someone there in the day as he never went to work and he was watching the house. By the way his dead noww in car accident. Yeah he drove like a maniac. So i hope that this has helped you in some way. Goodluck with your future. Love to hear and you got on.
mouse | Nov 17, 2009
Well my lovely you best get strong and leave his sorry dead beat ass, before he hits you and you cant leave him because your dead!!!
He’s using you my lovely because you allow him to, because you love him, he can come and go as he pleases and your still there waiting for him.
Wake up my lovely and love yourself 1st, you will no when you do, because you wont allow anymore abuse to happen to you.
He is emotionally physically and mentally abusing you, it’s a horrible ugly cycle our precious female species get into, and is so hard to get out of. Be live me i know after having lived many years in it myself.
Nobody understands why we stay hell half the time we don’t no, but i assure you there is a light at the end of the tunnel you just have to reach out and turn it on my lovely, no one else can do this for you but you.
One thing to be aware of is don’t let him turn that light out for you…… because after a brutal beating there’s only one light you end up seeing and that’s the one just before you end up in a coffin my lovely.
Take it ezy
Kate 08
kate 08 | Nov 17, 2009